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Saturday, 31 December, 2011

Books read in 2011

Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince by J. K. Rowling

If a Pirate I Must Be...: The True Story of Black Bart, King of the Caribbean Pirates by Richard Sanders

The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin by Benjamin Franklin

Poke the Box by Seth Godin

My Stroke of Insight by Jill Bolte Taylor

Brain Rules: 12 Principles for Surviving and Thriving at Work, Home, and School by John Medina

You've Gone Too Far This Time, Sir! by Danny Bent

The heart of simple living by Wanda Urbanska

The Mindful Path Through Shyness by Jeffrey Brantley and Steve Flowers

The Wonder of Presence And The Way of Meditative Inquiry by Toni Packer

Healing Breath by Ruben L.F. Habito

Ordinary Mind by Barry Magid

Buddhism, the religion of no-religion by Alan Watts

The Path of The Human Being by Dennis Genpo Merzel Roshi

Wholesome Fear by Lama Zopa Rinpoche and Kathleen Mcdonald

Meditation: advice to beginners by Bokar Rinpoche

Pure and Simple by Upasika Kee Nanayon

The Mind And The Way by Ajahn Sumedho

Being Dharma: The Essence of the Buddha's Teachings by Ajahn Chah

The Experience of Insight by Joseph Goldstein and Jack Kornfield

Seeking the Heart of Wisdom: The Path of Insight Meditation by Joseph Goldstein

The Heart of Compassion by Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche

The Heart of The Buddha by Chogyam Trungpa

True Perception by Chogyam Trungpa

Comfortable with Uncertainty by Pema Chodron

Traveling to the Other Shore by Venerable Master Hsing Yun

The Diamond Sutra&The Sutra of Hui-Neng translated by A.F. Price and Wong Mou Lam

鹿鼎记 by 金庸

Suzuka by Seo Kouji


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Sunday, 6 March, 2011

Surrounded by Fire

From Nokia new CEO Stephen Elop internal memo on the sinking of Nokia. (engadget)

There is a pertinent story about a man who was working on an oil platform in the North Sea. He woke up one night from a loud explosion, which suddenly set his entire oil platform on fire. In mere moments, he was surrounded by flames. Through the smoke and heat, he barely made his way out of the chaos to the platform's edge. When he looked down over the edge, all he could see were the dark, cold, foreboding Atlantic waters.

As the fire approached him, the man had mere seconds to react. He could stand on the platform, and inevitably be consumed by the burning flames. Or, he could plunge 30 meters in to the freezing waters. The man was standing upon a "burning platform," and he needed to make a choice.

He decided to jump. It was unexpected. In ordinary circumstances, the man would never consider plunging into icy waters. But these were not ordinary times - his platform was on fire. The man survived the fall and the waters. After he was rescued, he noted that a "burning platform" caused a radical change in his behaviour.

We too, are standing on a "burning platform," and we must decide how we are going to change our behaviour.



Our world is burning too!
Burning with the fire of passion, the fire of aversion, the fire of delusion. (The Fire Sermon)
The fire is sustained by our clinging. (Clinging)

One's Own Mind

"If, on examination of one's own mind, a monk knows, 'I usually remain covetous, with thoughts of ill will, overcome by sloth&drowsiness, restless, uncertain, angry, with soiled thoughts, with my body aroused, lazy, or unconcentrated,' then he should put forth extra desire, effort, diligence, endeavor, relentlessness, mindfulness,&alertness for the abandoning of those very same evil, unskillful qualities. Just as when a person whose turban or head was on fire would put forth extra desire, effort, diligence, endeavor, relentlessness, mindfulness,& alertness to put out the fire on his turban or head; in the same way, the monk should put forth extra desire, effort, diligence, endeavor, relentlessness, mindfulness, & alertness for the abandoning of those very same evil, unskillful qualities.

"But if, on examination, a monk knows, 'I usually remain uncovetous, without thoughts of ill will, free of sloth & drowsiness, not restless, gone beyond uncertainty, not angry, with unsoiled thoughts, with my body unaroused, with persistence aroused, & concentrated,' then his duty is to make an effort in maintaining those very same skillful qualities to a higher degree for the ending of the effluents."


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Sunday, 27 February, 2011

Jill Bolte Taylor's Stroke of Insight

From Ted.com

Jill Bolte Taylor got a research opportunity few brain scientists would wish for: She had a massive stroke, and watched as her brain functions -- motion, speech, self-awareness -- shut down one by one. An astonishing story.



My Stroke of Insight by Jill Bolte Taylor (Amazon)

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Monday, 3 January, 2011

Books read in 2010

The Audacity of Hope by Barack Obama

Morita Therapy and the True Nature of Anxiety-based Disorders by Shoma Morita

Naikan: Gratitude, Grace, and the Japanese Art of Self-Reflection by Gregg Krech

The Five Wisdom Energies by Irini Rockwell

The Monk and the Philosopher by Jean-Francois Revel and Matthieu Ricard

Moon in a dewdrop, Dogen (partial) edited by Kazuaki Tanahashi

Start Where You Are (A guide to compassionate living) by Pema Chodron

Where is Your Buddha Nature? by Venerable Master Hsing Yun (translated by Tom Graham)

Teachings on Love by Thich Nhat Hanh

Old Path White Clouds by Thich Nhat Hanh

Who Ordered This Truckload of Dung? by Ajahn Brahm

Mindfulness, Bliss, And Beyond by Ajahn Brahm

Food For The Heart by Ajahn Chah

everything arises, everything falls away by Ajahn Chah

The Life of The Buddha by Bhikkhu Nanamoli

The Buddha's Ancient Path by Piyadassi Thera

The Great Discourse on Not-self by Venerable Mahasi Sayadaw

The Noble Eightfold Path: The Way to the End of Suffering by Bhikkhu Bodhi

In the Buddha's Words by Bhikkhu Bodhi 

Great Disciples of the Buddha by Nyanaponika Thera, Hellmuth Hecker (edited by Bhikkhu Bodhi)

The Buddha In The Jungle by Kamala Tiyavanich

Forest Recollections Wandering Monks in Twentieth-Century Thailand by Kamala Tiyavanich

Being Nobody, Going Nowhere by Ayya Khema

The Sound of Silence by Ajahn Sumedho

Joyful Wisdom by Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche with Eric Swanson

Smile at Fear by Chogyam Trungpa (edited by Carolyn Rose Gimian)

The Myth of Freedom by Chogyam Trungpa (edited by John Baker and Marvin Casper)

At Home In The Muddy Water by Ezra Bayda

Programming Google App Engine by Dan Sanderson

Expert Python Programming (partial) by Tarek Ziade

Crictor by Tomi Ungerer

Alice's Adventures in Wonderland by Lewis Carroll

The Illustrated Dharma Sutra by 蔡志忠

Full Metal Alchemist by Arakawa Hiromu

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Wednesday, 23 June, 2010

Access to the Buddha's Words

This is a compilation of suttas (links to Access to Insight Tipitaka translation.) that are referenced in Bhikkhu Bodhi's book, In the Buddha's Words.

A PDF file of the table of contents and Chapter 1 can be downloaded from Wisdom Publications.

In the Buddha's Words

An Anthology of Discourses from the Pali Canon

I. The Human Condition

Introduction

  1. Old Age, Illness, and Death

    1. Aging and Death (SN 3:3)
    2. The Simile of the Mountain (SN 3:25)
    3. The Divine Messengers (from AN 3:35)
  2. The Tribulations of Unreflective Living

    1. The Dart of Painful Feeling (SN 36:6)
    2. The Vicissitudes of Life (AN 8:6)
    3. Anxiety Due to Change (SN 22:7)
  3. A World in Turmoil

    1. The Origin of Conflict (AN 2: iv, 6, abridged)
    2. Why Do Beings Live in Hate? (from DN 21)
    3. The Dark Chain of Causation (from DN 15)
    4. The Roots of Violence and Oppression (from AN 3:69)
  4. Without Discoverable Beginning

    1. Grass and Sticks (SN 15:1)
    2. Balls of Clay (SN 15:2)
    3. The Mountain (SN 15:5)
    4. The River Ganges (SN 15:8)
    5. Dog on a Leash (SN 22:99)

II. The Bringer of Light

Introduction

  1. One Person (AN 1: xiii, 1, 5, 6)

  2. The Buddha’s Conception and Birth (MN 123, abridged)

  3. The Quest for Enlightenment

    1. Seeking the Supreme State of Sublime Peace (from MN 26)
    2. The Realization of the Three True Knowledges (from MN 36)
    3. The Ancient City (SN 12:65)
  4. The Decision to Teach (from MN 26)

  5. The First Discourse (SN 56:11)

III. Approaching the Dhamma

Introduction

  1. Not a Secret Doctrine (AN 3:129)

  2. No Dogmas or Blind Belief (AN 3:65)

  3. The Visible Origin and Passing Away of Suffering (SN 42:11)

  4. Investigate the Teacher Himself (MN 47)

  5. Steps toward the Realization of Truth (from MN 95)

IV. The Happiness Visible in This Present Life

Introduction

  1. Upholding the Dhamma in Society

    1. The King of the Dhamma (AN 3:14)
    2. Worshipping the Six Directions (from DN 31)
  2. The Family

    1. Parents and Children
    2. Husbands and Wives

  3. Present Welfare, Future Welfare (AN 8:54)

  4. Right Livelihood

    1. Avoiding Wrong Livelihood (AN 5:177)
    2. The Proper Use of Wealth (AN 4:61)
    3. A Family Man’s Happiness (AN 4:62)
  5. The Woman of the Home (AN 8:49)

  6. The Community

    1. Six Roots of Dispute (from MN 104)
    2. Six Principles of Cordiality (from MN 104)
    3. Purification Is for All Four Castes (MN 93, abridged)
    4. Seven Principles of Social Stability (from DN 16)
    5. The Wheel-Turning Monarch (from DN 26)
    6. Bringing Tranquillity to the Land (from DN 5)

V. The Way to a Fortunate Rebirth

Introduction

  1. The Law of Kamma

    1. Four Kinds of Kamma (AN 4:232)
    2. Why Beings Fare as They Do after Death (MN 41)
    3. Kamma and Its Fruits (MN 135)
  2. Merit: The Key to Good Fortune

    1. Meritorious Deeds (It 22)
    2. Three Bases of Merit (AN 8:36)
    3. The Best Kinds of Confidence (AN 4:34)
  3. Giving

    1. If People Knew the Result of Giving (It 26)
    2. Reasons for Giving (AN 8:33)
    3. The Gift of Food (AN 4:57)
    4. A Superior Person’s Gifts (AN 5:148)
    5. Mutual Support (It 107)
    6. Rebirth on Account of Giving (AN 8:35)
  4. Moral Discipline

    1. The Five Precepts (AN 8:39)
    2. The Uposatha Observance (AN 8:41)
  5. Meditation

    1. The Development of Loving-Kindness (It 27)
    2. The Four Divine Abodes (from MN 99)
    3. Insight Surpasses All (AN 9:20, abridged)

VI. Deepening One’s Perspective on the World

Introduction

  1. Four Wonderful Things (AN 4:128)

  2. Gratification, Danger, and Escape

    1. Before My Enlightenment (AN 3:101 §§1–2)
    2. I Set Out Seeking (AN 3:101 §3)
    3. If There Were No Gratification (AN 3:102)
  3. Properly Appraising Objects of Attachment (MN 13)

  4. The Pitfalls in Sensual Pleasures

    1. Cutting Off All Affairs (from MN 54)
    2. The Fever of Sensual Pleasures (from MN 75)
  5. Life Is Short and Fleeting (AN 7:70)

  6. Four Summaries of the Dhamma (from MN 82)

  7. The Danger in Views

    1. A Miscellany on Wrong View (AN 1: xvii, 1, 3, 7, 9)
    2. The Blind Men and the Elephant (Ud 6:4)
    3. Held by Two Kinds of Views (It 49)
  8. From the Divine Realms to the Infernal (AN 4:125)

  9. The Perils of Samsara

    1. The Stream of Tears (SN 15:3)
    2. The Stream of Blood (SN 15:13)

VII. The Path to Liberation

Introduction

  1. Why Does One Enter the Path?

    1. The Arrow of Birth, Aging, and Death (MN 63)
    2. The Heartwood of the Spiritual Life (MN 29)
    3. The Fading Away of Lust (SN 45:41–48, combined)
  2. Analysis of the Eightfold Path (SN 45:8)

  3. Good Friendship (SN 45:2)

  4. The Graduated Training (MN 27)

  5. The Higher Stages of Training with Similes (from MN 39)

VIII. Mastering the Mind

Introduction

  1. The Mind Is the Key (AN 1: iii, 1, 2, 3, 4, 9, 10)

  2. Developing a Pair of Skills

    1. Serenity and Insight (AN 2: iii, 10)
    2. Four Ways to Arahantship (AN 4:170)
    3. Four Kinds of Persons (AN 4:94)
  3. The Hindrances to Mental Development (SN 46:55, abridged)

  4. The Refinement of the Mind (AN 3:100 §§1–10)

  5. The Removal of Distracting Thoughts (MN 20)

  6. The Mind of Loving-Kindness (from MN 21)

  7. The Six Recollections (AN 6:10)

  8. The Four Establishments of Mindfulness (MN 10)

  9. Mindfulness of Breathing (SN 54:13)

  10. The Achievement of Mastery (SN 28:1–9, combined)

IX. Shining the Light of Wisdom

Introduction

  1. Images of Wisdom

    1. Wisdom as a Light (AN 4:143)
    2. Wisdom as a Knife (from MN 146)
  2. The Conditions for Wisdom (AN 8:2, abridged)

  3. A Discourse on Right View (MN 9)

  4. The Domain of Wisdom

    1. By Way of the Five Aggregates

    2. By Way of the Six Sense Bases

      • Full Understanding (SN 35:26)
      • Burning (SN 35:28)
      • Suitable for Attaining Nibbana (SN 35:147–49, combined)
      • Empty Is the World (SN 35:85)
      • Consciousness Too Is Nonself (SN 35:234)
    3. By Way of the Elements

      • The Eighteen Elements (SN 14:1)
      • The Four Elements (SN 14:37–39, combined)
      • The Six Elements (from MN 140)
    4. By Way of Dependent Origination

    5. By Way of the Four Noble Truths

      • The Truths of All Buddhas (SN 56:24)
      • These Four Truths Are Actual (SN 56:20)
      • A Handful of Leaves (SN 56:31)
      • Because of Not Understanding (SN 56:21)
      • The Precipice (SN 56:42)
      • Making the Breakthrough (SN 56:32)
      • The Destruction of the Taints (SN 56:25)
  5. The Goal of Wisdom

    1. What is Nibbana? (SN 38:1)
    2. Thirty-Three Synonyms for Nibbana (SN 43:1–44, combined)
    3. There Is That Base (Ud 8:1)
    4. The Unborn (Ud 8:3)
    5. The Two Nibbana Elements (It 44)
    6. The Fire and the Ocean (from MN 72)

X. The Planes of Realization

Introduction

  1. The Field of Merit for the World

    1. Eight Persons Worthy of Gifts (AN 8:59)
    2. Differentiation by Faculties (SN 48:18)
    3. In the Dhamma Well Expounded (from MN 22)
    4. The Completeness of the Teaching (from MN 73)
    5. Seven Kinds of Noble Persons (from MN 70)
  2. Stream-Entry

    1. The Four Factors Leading to Stream-Entry (SN 55:5)
    2. Entering the Fixed Course of Rightness (SN 25:1)
    3. The Breakthrough to the Dhamma (SN 13:1)
    4. The Four Factors of a Stream-Enterer (SN 55:2)
    5. Better than Sovereignty over the Earth (SN 55:1)
  3. Nonreturning

    1. Abandoning the Five Lower Fetters (from MN 64)
    2. Four Kinds of Persons (AN 4:169)
    3. Six Things that Partake of True Knowledge (SN 55:3)
    4. Five Kinds of Nonreturners (SN 46:3)
  4. The Arahant

    1. Removing the Residual Conceit “I Am” (SN 22:89)
    2. The Trainee and the Arahant (SN 48:53)
    3. A Monk Whose Crossbar Has Been Lifted (from MN 22)
    4. Nine Things an Arahant Cannot Do (from AN 9:7)
    5. A Mind Unshaken (from AN 9:26)
    6. The Ten Powers of an Arahant Monk (AN 10:90)
    7. The Sage at Peace (from MN 140)
    8. Happy Indeed Are the Arahants (from SN 22:76)
  5. The Tathagata

    1. The Buddha and the Arahant (SN 22:58)
    2. For the Welfare of Many (It 84)
    3. Sariputta’s Lofty Utterance (SN 47:12)
    4. The Powers and Grounds of Self-Confidence (from MN 12)
    5. The Manifestation of Great Light (SN 56:38)
    6. The Man Desiring Our Good (from MN 19)
    7. The Lion (SN 22:78)
    8. Why Is He Called the Tathagata? (AN 4:23 = It 112)



Emptiness

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Sunday, 16 May, 2010

The Green Buddha of The Grotto

From The Buddha In The Jungle by Kamala Tiyavanich.

The Green Buddha of The Grotto

Western Explorers and thudong monks who traveled through the forests of Siam and Laos often saw Buddha images, large and small, in sacred caves. Between 1881 and 1893, when James McCarthy was conducting surveys for Siam's government that took him all over the north, he investigated many caves. When he was in Nan, a principality in northern Siam ringed by high mountains, McCarthy wrote, "We visited the cave opposite the mouth of the Nam U, the ascent to which was made easy by a flight of steps. It was not very large but contained from one to two hundred images, varying from 3 inches to as many feet. A beautiful little pagoda built within looked charming in the glorious sunlight." Local people generally believed that many of the Buddha images in the caves had been there since ancient times. Upon entering a cave or a wat they usually paid homage to the Buddha images there. Villagers did not keep Buddha images in their homes. In the days when village life was not yet ruled by money, it was unthinkable that anyone should wish to remove images from caves or monasteries.

Unlike devout villagers, Westerners who came upon Buddha images in caves had no fear of guardian spirits. Those who wished to take a few images home with them did so without scruple. A Dutchman identified only by his last name, Klaasen, came to Northern Siam during the first decade of the twentieth century when the mountains and jungles were still formidable places. Klaasen, who lived and worked in Siam for thirty-five years, was not an antique hunter and knew the law forbidding the removal of religious statuary, but when he saw a green jade Buddha image in a jungle cave somewhere beyond Chiang Mai, he could not resist the temptation to take it.

Many years later, in the 1950s, Klaasen met Ludwig Koch-Isenburg, a German zoologist, at a hotel in northern Thailand. The Dutchman proposed a trek to the cave. Klaasen, who knew his way around, persuaded a government official in Chiang Mai to give them permission to stay at a solitary forest rangers' station high up in the mountains. Koch-Isenburg, who wrote about their trek, described the scene .. ..

"We had come to the bottom of a wide ravine whose floor was completely covered by a shallow, crystalline stream. Holding our shoes in our hands, we leaped from stone to stone in the bed of the river. ... The ravine narrowed." Suddenly, he cried out in amazement. "A gigantic recumbent Buddha had been carved out of the rock. One arm was outstretched along the body, the other was propping up the head; the eyes gazed, mysterious and unfathomable, into the timeless green and golden virgin jungle. .. I realize that we had entered a mighty grotto in the rock. In front of the Buddha's face stood a vessel containing rods of incense, and I saw with some surprise that my Dutch friend was lighting them. .. "

Klaasen led Koch-Isenburg to a little niche in the rock at the feet of the Buddha. "Carefully he picked up a carving that stood there and handed it to me. I stared spellbound at the ancient image. .. .. A tremendous feeling of happiness surged through me. I felt a deep sense of gratitude, though I could not have said for what." The Dutchman then told the German scientist that the statue had this effect "upon everyone who sees it". Klaasen next confessed that he had once been so "overwhelmed" by it that he "became a thief".

In the 1920s, Klaasen told his young friend, " ... ... I had to fight a terrible battle with myself," he told his companion, "before I reached out my hands and plucked the statue from the spot where it had probably stood for centuries. ... And in fact, the very moment I put the sculpture into my pack, I thought I heard a burst of insane laughter. ..."

After reasoning that he would soon be returning to Holland, where avenging spirits could not follow him, he found no peace. He bought a small statuette of Buddha made of solid gold. Its money value, Klaasen said, "must be approximately the same as the value of the stolen jade Buddha ... We materialistic Westerns think we can balance everything by arithmetic and pay for anything on earth. I travelled back all that enormous distance and set the gold Buddha in the empty place on the altar. But this act of restitution did not buy me inner peace. Nevertheless, a few months later, I was ready to start for Holland, and by that time I had at least regained enough peace of mind so that I could sleep at night."

Klaasen succeeded in smuggling the statue out of the country, but "back in misty Holland, whenever I looked at my Buddha," he said, "I felt a stabbing pain in my chest. What an earthly paradise I had given up! I would sit lost in thought for hours, and all the magic beauty of that ravine in the jungle would pour through my heart."

After working out a new contract with his firm, Klaasen returned to Siam. As soon as he could get away from his job, he traveled back to the north. He had decided to return the green Buddha to its home. "By now it had become completely clear that I must return my stolen Buddha to the sanctuary if I were ever to be a free man again."

The closer he got to the cave temple the better the Dutchman began to feel. But when he entered the grotto, he said, he "sprang back in horror. Before the altar an ancient monk in yellow robe was kneeling. The pedestal of the jade Buddha, on which I had placed the golden image, was empty. The monk rose as if he had sensed my presence and came toward me. His eyes held a look of infinite kindness as he bowed his head and raised his clasped hands to his forehead in greeting. Like a sinner caught in the act, I stood before the man. The stolen Buddha burned like fire in my hands, and, acting under a mysterious compulsion, I held it out to him. A repressed smile played around his lips - or so it seemed to me - and quietly, as though it were the most natural thing in the world, he turned and replaced the statue on its pedestal."

The monk said quietly, "I have waited for you, Brother."

Klaasen learned that the monk, a hermit, had watched the theft from his cave in the rocks above the grotto. He could have stopped Klaasen, "But true to the rules of his religion, with its respect for others," the Dutchman told the German, "he had let me commit the robbery. He could have called out to me, but had he done so the farang [Westerner] would have lost face, would have been shamed."

Taking a deep breath, Klaasen revealed to his German companion that he then became a Buddhist and for a long while "wore the yellow robe and trudged about the country with the begging bowl," returning to the gorge from time to time. "All our European haste and disquiet has fallen away from me. I have come to realize that quiet equanimity is the highest good that we can achieve in this life," the Dutchman concluded.


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Sunday, 16 May, 2010

Two Legs Monastery

From The Buddha In The Jungle by Kamala Tiyavanich.


Throughout his years of wandering Ajan Butda was often invited to villagers' houses to perform Buddhist ceremonies and give sermons. One day, as he was approaching a village, a man ran up to him and asked the monk, "Which is your wat?" (wat = temple-monastery) Ajan Butda replied, "Wat Song Kha [= Two Legs Monastery]. Wherever my two legs stand, that is my wat." In the context of the Dhamma, the two legs symbolize wisdom and compassion.

Like his village teachers, who studied local religious literature, including the Jataka stories, Ajan Butda believed that Gotama Buddha practiced paramis over many successive lives as a bodhisat before he was able to attain enlightenment. By the turn of the twentieth century the Bangkok elite of his day no longer believed that the Jataka stories had been narrated by the Buddha. Ajan Butda, however, was convinced that the Buddha had been a bodhisat in his former lives.

.. ..

On another occasion Ajan Butda was invited to give a sermon at a wedding in rural Thailand. Unlike Protestant ministers, Catholic priests, and Jewish rabbis, Buddhist monks do not normally perform wedding ceremonies. Customarily a marriage was performed by a layman versed in traditional rituals or by a respected elder. On their wedding day the bride and groom made merit by offering food to monks and inviting the most senior monk to give a sermon and offer blessings for the couple's happiness. Sometimes nine monks were invited, as nine was considered an auspicious number. These nine, together with the Buddha image, made ten, an even number considered auspicious for a wedding. On this day four couples were getting married at the same time, and Ajan Butda was invited to give a sermon.

Instead of the usual sermon about how a husband should minister to his wife and how she should reciprocate, Ajan Butda talked about supramundane happiness, the pure happiness of liberation from greed, delusion, and aversion. As Ajan Butda went on describing the joys of renunciation, the brides and the bridegrooms began to have doubts about embarking upon the married life. By the time he finished his sermon the couples-to-be had made up their minds not to enter the householder's life.

Instead of offering blessings at the wedding ceremony, the monk was asked to perform ordinations for the grooms and brides who now wished to become bhikkhus and mae chi (white-robed renunciants). Some of the grandfathers and grandmothers of the brides and grooms were so moved by Ajan Butda's teaching that they also wished to ordain along with their grandchildren. Unfortunately, since Bangkok authorities did not recognize Ajan Butda as a preceptor, he could not ordain them.
(also see Forest Recollections Wandering Monks in Twentieth-Century Thailand by Kamala Tiyavanich)

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